So What?

By January 16, 2015 No Comments


My life sucks.

I’m all alone.

I’m not happy.

I’m not successful.

My spouse hates me.

I have too much debt.

I don’t have enough time.

I don’t make enough money.

My parents don’t love or support me.

I don’t have a degree that will get me a better job.

So what.

That sounds cold, but it’s the truth. The harsh truth is that most of the world doesn’t care about your problems, it’s just glad you have them. We’ve been trained to have a negative mindset. It’s easier to be negative than it is to be positive. That’s why so many of us focus only on our problems, and this has a devastating spiral effect.

We all have problems in life but we can’t let those problems consume us. Problems are a part of life, but they’re not all of it. We must learn to see and value the opportunity that lies within each problem. We must develop the mindset of, “I can , I will, and I MUST get through this.”

Where are you in your life today? Where do you want to go? Intention is everything. The answer to all of your problems is..YOU. What are you going to do about your problems? YOU determine the level of success reached. What are you going to make of your life? It’s time to stop lamenting on your problems and failures. Now is the time to act intentionally towards achieving your dreams.

Whatever your dreams and goals are, your actions must align towards them. We’re all created to be winners. It’s within us, it’s in our minds. Go hard in everything you do!  If you believe you can’t do something, then you can’t. If you believe it, you can make it happen. You must be willing to knock down doors, kick down walls, take all the negative people, thoughts, and things and throw them away.

You’ve got problems? So what.

You’re not where you want to be right now? So what.

Success happens when your focus shifts from the problem and to the solution.

“Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other.”~Abraham Lincoln

As always, thanks for reading, have a great week and be an RGP today!